You ever have one of those nights where you just know there is going to be conflict? We had one of those wonderful arguments that just seem to be inevitable, but it did seem to clear the air – I cried OF COURSE – when do I not? But I think both of us got concerns/feelings/issues off our chests and came to a better understanding of what each other needs. I just hate fighting, I really want to work on not doing it AT ALL in front of the kids. That is not to say not disagree just not the full out arguments.
We managed to get out and do some shopping today – I got Emanuel his Intellitrainer (I am on Ken’s PC and not using Explorer and this has already crashed and burned on me once tonight so I will link tomorrow), for $5.00 cheaper than I thought it would be… and I got one of Ken’s gifts. Course he waited too long to get me his list. I had to spend $20.00 more than I would have at Walmart since they were sold out! BAH I am going to pack it in the box the new toy came in wrapped in fabric so he won’t know what I got him off the list – it was not the longest list in the world LOL. Tomorrow we are going to put up our tree. Ken has to go get it out of the unit in the morning and them my mom is coming over to help. I love having a tree – I have NEVER missed a year!
Well the kids are asleep and Ken is at work and I am already crashing – we did get the government issue figured out – long story short – we owe the money due to an error THEY made but irregardless they want it back. So on Wednesday when the lady in charge of my file gets back from yet another leave I will try and negotiate a more reasonable monthly payment for us. I never once said I would not pay a debt we legitimately owe – I just wanted to be sure we owed it before we took money from other debts to do it. Man I hope we can get this money thing under control soon… Ken is working so hard…
Ok ok I need to hit the hay… hopefully tomorrow night I will have some time to write more. I have been doing alot of random thinking and for some reason feel the need to share this stuff with the world LOL.. that is if I can remember it.